Food Allergies

Being a mom of a sweet boy with a very serious nut allergy is stressful. So many times I feel like people don't take me or his allergy seriously. I often hear (even from Americans) "so, he doesn't like to eat that food?". No, he could in fact DIE from eating this food. This morning I read this story and it broke my heart. I am grieving for this family. Even if your child doesn't have food allergies, please be thoughtful enough to ask before offering someone else's child food or drink. I have been to numerous kids birthday parties where nuts are served in some form. If there's going to be children there, why risk it? Just don't serve nuts!

Almost a year ago, we went to a restaurant (one that we go to often and know the people who work there) and the waiters took the boys to the counter while we were sitting at the table. I didn't think much of it. I sat there talking to our friends who were with us and then Casey came over with an Indian sweet in his hand. I started to panic when I saw he had taken a bite out of it. Before I could ask anyone what was in it, he said his tongue felt funny. Now I was really panicked. We gave him some benadryl and started praying. I'm sure the people in the restaurant thought we were crazy! Then the vomiting started....again and again and all that benadryl came up. I remember standing over him with the epi pen loaded and ready to use with tears streaming down my face. He was wheezing and terrified...and so was I. Was this how I was going to say goodbye to my little man? Over something so stupid and so preventable? All these things were running through my head as I held him in my arms, rocking him and telling him it was okay. Praise be to God that he slowly started getting better until he was back to normal.
When we knew Casey was okay, I looked over at Josiah and he was sobbing into his hands. I asked him what was wrong and he said "It's all my fault! I asked the man if it had milk in it but I didn't ask him if there were nuts before he gave it to Casey!". I was quick to explain to him that although he needs to look out for his little brother, it was in no way his fault.
My point is that it only takes ONE bite. ONE! This is a Mom of a food allergy kid begging you to be aware, begging you not to roll your eyes and sigh because your kids can't take nut food to school, begging you to understand that we didn't ask for this and we can't control it.

Favorite Things!

Time for a few of my favorite things!

1. Lacto Fermented Saurkraut - don't let the name scare you! Do you enjoy saurkraut? I LOVE it! My mom says that when I was little she would open a can of kraut, I would follow her around and beg her to let me eat it straight out of the can. Well, I made my own saurkraut (which is so much better for you) and it's amazing. The boys can't get enough of it! If you are new to the benefits of lacto fermented foods here is a good post to read - it's super good for you! Lacto fermenting is very easy, it just takes the patience to wait a few days until it's ready.

2. Salt and vinegar almonds - We are huge fans of salt and vinegar potato chips but obviously, those are not so good for you. Aaron had the bright idea to search for a salt and vinegar almond recipe and I'm so glad he did! These are delicious and addictive! But be warned, they make your house smell when boiling them.

3. Citrus Enzyme Cleaner - when you look at statistics online, it is scary to think of the ways that chemical cleaners can destroy the health of our families. Did you know that "Women who work at home have a 54% higher death rate from cancer than those who work away from home. The 15-year study concluded it was as a direct result of the much higher exposure rate to toxic chemicals in common household products!". I began looking into alternatives and found this recipe for Citrus enzyme cleaner. I've been using it for about a year and love it. I use it on everything...the bathrooms, mirrors, glass, counters...everything! I can't recommend it enough!

That's How We Do It At The Goccia Academy

Friday we decided to take home-school outside...to the park!

We started off having a little play time...P.E. - check.

Josiah - Monkey bar master!

A little more P.E. time with Papa - nerf gun wars!

Then we found this adorable little kitten and she became our play buddy for the rest of the day. Zoology - check.

We all took turns holding and playing with her. Sharing - check!

Workin' up a sweat and drinking water! Nutrition - check!

We found some different kinds of leaves and glued them on paper. Science - check!

Josie's turn!

It was so hard to leave this little girl that we grew so fond of in just a few short hours. We're hoping she will be there when we go back.

4.5 hours at the park + 10 minute car ride home = this.

and this! 

We had such a great day! Can't wait to do it again.

A Day With Friends

One of the things I really love about our job is investing in people and building relationships with them. There is one family that I especially love spending time with. We are serving the same One but they have paid a great price...they are refugees from Pakistan. They can never return home. There are times when I feel homesick, but at least I know that I could pick up and move back tomorrow...not so for them. So even though we like to think that we go to encourage them, we always leave encouraged ourselves!

To get to their house, we take a one hour train ride. We could drive our car but fighting the traffic here can wear on you, so we usually take the easier and cheaper option of the train. The boys have fun using their cameras to take pictures of people and the landscape as we wait on the train.

Josiah and Casey enjoying our train ride.

Josiah did not have time for his quiet time at home so he did it on the train. Here he's drawing a picture about what he learned.

Mommy and Casey

One of the pictures Josiah took at the train station.

Casey took this one of a small restaurant outside the train station.

I really try to limit our boys TV time, so they always love going to a friends house where they can watch more than I would normally allow!

Josiah and Bitu usually spend half their time wrestling.

Casey loves Abri!

The boys love spending time with these two special friends.

Some of the men...doing men stuff, I guess.

Playing "school".

Abri (the oldest) is the teacher!

Casey and Bitu...two cuties!

We usually spend most of the day at their house...enough time to eat with them once or twice and then head back home. It's always an all day affair but so enjoyable!

Aaron's Photos

One of the things Aaron does here is write and take pictures for Ethno Traveler online magazine. You can find his most recent pictures published here. His talents never cease to amaze me. Aaron is one of those people who can literally pick up anything and learn it. It may take time, but he always excels in it. So proud of you, Aaron!

Enjoy his pictures!

Happy Birthday Josiah!!!

How could it possibly be that 6 years ago today this happened? Josiah came into this world and turned it completely upside down for us. He has been a challenge from the beginning but he has added so much to our lives. He keeps me looking to God for answers, he has a super sensitive heart to all spiritual things, his prayers convict and encourage me, his questions push me, his passion for life is insatiable, his love for his family is fierce! He is God's gift to me!

Okay, so all the mushy part over..let's talk about the celebration we had today! First thing this morning Josiah opened his presents and he and Casey began playing. I was originally planning to have school this morning but they were having so much fun that I decided that we'll have school on Saturday instead (the plus side of homeschooling!).

Why do they always take the best pictures when they are in their underwear?

Excited about the K'nex he got from Nani and Pawpaw.

When we originally asked Josiah where he wanted to eat (much earlier in the week) for his birthday, he said he wanted Indian food, then changed it to Chili's (yes, we have that here) and in the end, we ended up with McDonalds. Aaron and I were less than thrilled. :) But Josiah and Casey enjoyed it very much!

Josiah's meal of choice...McDonalds.

Casey and Papa

After lunch we went to see "Planes". It just came out today so it was great timing for some birthday fun.
Josiah decided he wanted lemon pound cake for his dessert. I made this one, substituted yogurt for sour cream and added a lemon glaze. It was delicious!

Josiah's lemon poundcake

Happy boy!

Birthdays are always emotional for me. I automatically think about how the number of years they will be with us has just decreased. When we were in the US I heard someone say: "The days are long but the years are short.". Isn't that incredibly true? I want to make the most of the few short years I'm given with these two awesome little boys.

My Favorite Things

I'm going to start doing random posts on a variety of current favorite things. Anything goes...as long as it's my favorite! :)

Today I have quite a few favorite things to share with you.

1. My favorite podcast for the boys: Crossroads Kids Club. If you don't do the ipad/podcast thing, you can still watch their video and listen to their music on their website: http://crossroadskidsclub.net/
I've been trying to think of a way to help Josiah and Casey to have quiet time with the Lord each morning. Since they are both pre-readers, it's a little difficult. This podcast has been the answer for us. Every morning they watch one music video and one story. We gave each of them notebooks, so after they watch it they draw a picture about what they learned. Then they show it to either Aaron or myself and we talk about what they learned and pray with them. So far, it's worked out really well...they BEG to watch a new story every morning!

2. I found this awesome website (http://kidsofintegrity.com/) that has complete lesson plans for building Godly character. We are using this as our homeschool Bible curriculum. It's really fantastic! You can tweak and change it to fit any age. There are lots of hands on activities to choose from, Bible stories, memory verses, suggested prayers and more. It's a really great (FREE!!!) resource.

3. Our favorite game: See Spot Spell. I got this for Josiah as part of his Kindergarten activities. He asks to play constantly! You start off reading 3 letter words but can go up to 5 letter words as your child's reading improves. I highly recommend it.

4. Our favorite new recipe: Garlic Lemon Chicken. The only thing I did differently is I peeled the lemon before putting it in the bottom of the pan. I love this meal because it's quick, easy, allergy free and only dirties one dish!

Let me know if you try any of our favorite things!

I always love reading your comments. :)

Calling All Superheros!

Today we celebrated Josiah and Casey's birthdays. Casey turned 4 in July and Josiah turns 6 in August. They wanted a superhero party and I have to admit that I was pretty excited about it! We had such a good time....

I had a lot of fun planning for this party. There are so many great ideas and options online for a superhero party. This is our cityscape, complete with superheros. Printables for the superheroes are here.

This is my favorite...the superhero suckers. It took a lot of time to cut these out but they were completely worth it. My Love drilled holes in an old broom handle and we were able to hang these up. The kids and adults loved them. Here are the printables.

Superman!

We had some dear friends from Pakistan join us.

Casey with the table. By the time we got around to taking pictures, the food was almost gone but this gives you an idea of what the table looked like at first.

Enjoying the pool.

There was so much tape on the superhero suckers that they were rather difficult to open. Ha!

The cupcakes. I am pretty sure that the kids got their yearly allotment of food coloring in just one of these cupcakes. :) I made red, blue, green and yellow batter (think superhero colors) and yellow and blue frosting. I then printed off these superhero symbols, attached them to colored Popsicle sticks and stuck them in the cupcakes.

Look at those chubby hands reaching for a cupcake. It's Casey. How do I know? Because he can't have icing on his cupcakes since he's allergic to dairy. :( Would you pray with me that his food allergies would disappear?

My amazing firstborn. This boy makes my heart skip a beat. I.LOVE.HIM.

So the day was a success! Tonight as I was putting the boys to bed, Josiah asked if he could pray with me. He prayed "thank you for my sweet Mommy who worked so hard on our party today". Made it worth it all!

Every birthday I am reminded of the amazing miracle of these two boys lives. I could never express how thankful I am that God gave me these gifts. I am blessed!

Thanks for reading! I love reading your comments too. :)

Why I'm Quitting Facebook...For Now

Living overseas can be tricky. Our lives are here, our home is here, our kids know nothing else but I still feel that constant pull toward home. That place where the people I love most in the world are, where I feel most comfortable, where life is just a little easier. Daily I catch myself being drawn to the world of Facebook. A way for me to live here and still be involved in the lives of everyone at home. You could say that I am doing my best to live in two worlds. But the reality is, it's exhausting to try to live in two worlds at once. And honestly, I don't have the time for it. I know that it isn't what God wants for me either. So, I think it's time to ditch facebook for a while and get back to the blogging world (so I can still keep my family at home up to date). So there you go...I'm quitting Facebook.....for now.